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Relationships

Good or Bad?

Relationships

Good or Bad?

All relationships are different

There is no such thing as a normal relationship or a one size fits all. But there are healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships.

Loves Me

 

 Makes me feel safe and comfortable

 

 Listens and values my opinion, is proud of me when I achieve things

 

 Respects and supports me, no matter where we are or who we are with

 

 Encourages me to keep trying with things that I find hard

 

 Is truthful with me

 

 Admits to being wrong

 

 Always tries to understand how I feel

 

 Accepts that I need to see family and friends

 

 Makes me happy

 

 Trusts me

 

 Treats me as an equal

 

 Respects me and my family

 

 Understands my need for time alone or with family

 

 Accepts me as I am

Loves Me Not

 

♦ Is jealous, possessive and tries to control me

 

♦ Loses temper easily

 

♦ Makes threats and does things that scare me

 

♦ Makes me cry and hits me

 

♦ Always blames me, makes me feel guilty

 

♦ Keeps me from seeing my family and friends

 

♦ Wants to make all the decisions

 

♦ Embarrasses me and puts me down when we are alone and in front of others

 

♦ Doesn’t trust me, always checking up

 

♦ Controls my money and my life

 

♦ Makes all the decisions

 

♦ Teases, bullies and puts me down

 

♦ Is sexually demanding

 

♦ Threatens to leave me if I don’t do what I’m told

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