Relationships
Good or Bad?
Relationships
Good or Bad?
All relationships are different
There is no such thing as a normal relationship or a one size fits all. But there are healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships.
Loves Me
♦ Makes me feel safe and comfortable
♦ Listens and values my opinion, is proud of me when I achieve things
♦ Respects and supports me, no matter where we are or who we are with
♦ Encourages me to keep trying with things that I find hard
♦ Is truthful with me
♦ Admits to being wrong
♦ Always tries to understand how I feel
♦ Accepts that I need to see family and friends
♦ Makes me happy
♦ Trusts me
♦ Treats me as an equal
♦ Respects me and my family
♦ Understands my need for time alone or with family
♦ Accepts me as I am
Loves Me Not
♦ Is jealous, possessive and tries to control me
♦ Loses temper easily
♦ Makes threats and does things that scare me
♦ Makes me cry and hits me
♦ Always blames me, makes me feel guilty
♦ Keeps me from seeing my family and friends
♦ Wants to make all the decisions
♦ Embarrasses me and puts me down when we are alone and in front of others
♦ Doesn’t trust me, always checking up
♦ Controls my money and my life
♦ Makes all the decisions
♦ Teases, bullies and puts me down
♦ Is sexually demanding