♦ Do you feel controlled, manipulated, treated like an object?
♦ Do you feel isolated, are you prevented from seeing or talking to friends and family?
♦ Are you allowed to make your own decisions?
♦ Are your phone calls, emails and social media monitored or blocked?
♦ Are you pressured into taking drugs / alcohol?
♦ Do you have low self-esteem and confidence?
♦ Are you being followed, not allowed any privacy, accompanied everywhere you go?
♦ Are you often screamed and shouted at?
♦ Do you get called names?
♦ Are you accused of things?
♦ Are you being verbally threatened?
♦ Does someone hit you, push you, pull your hair out, burn you, restrain you?
♦ Are you continually put down in front of other people?
♦ Is money taken from your purse/wallet/bank account without asking?
♦ Do they refuse to help with childcare or housework?
♦ Are you lied to?
♦ Is information withheld from you?
♦ Are they jealous?
♦ Do they destroy your possessions?
♦ Use their size or strength to intimidate you?
♦ Do they punch walls, wield weapons?
♦ Do they threaten to harm people close to you?
♦ Are you pressured into having sex?
♦ Are you told that it’s your fault?